8-10 Mansfield St, Thornbury 3071.

Julia Shay

Julia is a counsellor and social worker with over 15 years of experience. She has worked with a diverse range of issues such as complex mental health, grief and loss, relationship issues, suicide prevention, addictions, and family violence. She has worked in a variety of different settings including telephone and online services, not for profit agencies and Employee Assistance Program.

Julia is a client centred counsellor who offers presence, genuine engagement, and a deep understanding of core issues and childhood trauma that can lead to problems in every aspect of one's life. She uses a range of frameworks including psychodynamic, attachment theory and cognitive behavioural therapy.

Julia holds a Bachelor of Arts majoring in Gender Studies, a Graduate Diploma in Community Counselling and a Masters in Social Work. She has also completed a specialist course in Integrative Couples Therapy and training in Emotionally Focussed Couples Therapy (EFCT).

EFCT is an effective evidence based couples therapy which recognises that emotions play a big part in your relationship. They show you when you feel your boundaries have been crossed, and when you feel hurt or unloved. They also show you when you feel appreciated, valued and supported.

Julia uses EFCT to help you focus on your core emotions so you can make sense of repeating negative cycles and patterns in your relationship. She also uses attachment science to help you understand how the love you did or didn't receive in childhood affects your adult relationships.

EFCT is a powerful tool and can help you to gain a better understanding of yourself, your partner and how you relate to each other. Through EFCT, Julia can teach you how to communicate your needs with your partner so you can both feel respected, supported, trusted, valued, loved and deeply connected.


Julia Shay

Services / Modalities

Practitioner Couples Therapy Relationships Counselling Individual Counselling


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